My Real-Life Guide to Feeling Your Best (Inside & Out)
- alissa089
- Dec 26, 2025
- 6 min read
My 15 Pillars for Feeling, Looking & Living My Best

Welcome to Our December Newsletter
Happy Boxing Day, better late than never 💛
I’m sending this newsletter very intentionally today.
Boxing Day often invites reflection, rest, and maybe even a little shopping. It’s also a beautiful opportunity to think about the pillars that help us feel our best, especially heading into a new year.
What I’m sharing below isn’t perfection, it’s my dream routine when I have capacity. These are the habits, products, and mindset shifts I work toward daily to help me feel energized, grounded, confident, and well.
Take what resonates. Leave what doesn’t. Even one or two small shifts can go a long way.
Pillar #1: Start the Day with Hydration
Every morning, before coffee, I aim for:
Hot water
Fresh lemon juice
Fresh or powdered turmeric + dash black pepper
Fresh ginger
✨ Tip: I keep chopped ginger and turmeric frozen in tablespoon portions so it’s effortless.
Why this matters:
Hydration supports skin health, digestion, and circulation
Many of us confuse thirst for hunger
Starting hydrated can help appetite regulation and energy
Pillar #2: 30g of Protein at Breakfast
This is one of my biggest non-negotiables.
Why 30 grams?
Supports muscle protein synthesis via mTOR activation
Helps preserve lean mass (especially important as we age)
Improves satiety, blood sugar control, and energy
Reduces cravings later in the day
10 High-Protein Breakfast Ideas (≈30g protein)
All include 1-2 cups fruit or vegetables and low-glycemic carbs when included:
Egg white + whole egg veggie scramble with spinach, peppers, mushrooms
Greek yogurt bowl + berries + chia + hemp seeds
Cottage cheese + cucumber + cherry tomatoes + olive oil
Protein smoothie: protein powder, frozen berries, spinach, almond milk
Smoked salmon omelet + sautéed greens
Tofu scramble + broccoli + zucchini
Protein pancakes (protein powder + eggs) + berries
Turkey sausage + roasted vegetables
High-protein chia pudding + protein powder
Breakfast salad: eggs, greens, avocado, seeds
Pillar #3: Plan 3 Eating Times During the Workday
If I’m working an 8-hour day, I plan for:
Morning snack
Lunch
Afternoon snack
Why? Because if I wait too long…👉 I’m not choosing the salad, I’m choosing the chocolate.
Using the Balanced Plate helps guide portions and balance, even for snacks.
Pillar #4: Move Often (Even If You Exercise)
Even if you’re active, long periods of sitting increase all-cause mortality risk.
I aim to:
Get up every 20-30 minutes
Move for 5-10 minutes
Movement ideas:
Walk while on calls
Stretch
Stairs
Bodyweight squats
Short walks outside
Think: “Sitting is the new smoking.”
Pillar #5: Dress & Groom for the Day You Want
When I get dressed, do my makeup, and smile more, my day changes.
Self-care is not vanity.It improves mood, confidence, and productivity.
Some of my go-to places:
Feeling good in your body sets the tone for the entire day.
Pillar #6: Simple Face & Oral Care
A routine I love:
Mouthwash (oral health = whole-body health)
Olaplex Heat Protection Hair Oil
Small rituals = big payoff.
Pillar #7: Smile (Even If You Fake It)
Smiling releases endorphins, dopamine, and serotonin, our “happy hormones.”
Even a forced smile can:
Improve mood
Reduce stress
Shift perspective
Aim for a few intentional smiles every hour.
Pillar #8: Supplements I Recommend Most Often
Not magic, just supportive.
Vitamin D drops (more readily absorbed as a drop, once weekly loading works well)
Omega-3s (1,000 mg EPA/DHA daily)
Magnesium bisglycinate (30–60 min before bed)
Psyllium fibre (especially if cholesterol is a concern)
Pillar #9: One Batch Recipe Per Week
Pick one recipe.Build your grocery list around it.Batch cook.Freeze some. Refrigerate some.
Breakfast: Veggie Egg Muffins
Why it works: High-protein, portable, freezer-friendly, and perfect for busy mornings when breakfast is often skipped.
Protein target: ~18–22 g protein (2 muffins)
Ingredients (makes ~12 muffins):
10 large eggs
1 cup liquid egg whites (optional, boosts protein)
1 cup chopped spinach or kale
1 cup diced bell peppers
½ cup chopped onion or green onion
½–¾ cup shredded cheese (cheddar, feta, or mozzarella)
Salt, pepper, garlic powder, paprika to taste
Optional protein add-ins:
½ cup cooked turkey bacon or chicken sausage
½ cup cottage cheese blended into egg mixture (extra creamy + protein boost)
Instructions:
Preheat oven to 375°F (190°C).
Whisk eggs and egg whites together.
Stir in vegetables, cheese, seasoning, and any protein add-ins.
Pour evenly into a greased muffin tin.
Bake 20–25 minutes until set.
Storage:
Fridge: up to 4–5 days
Freezer: up to 2 months
How to serve:
Pair with fruit (berries, apple) and/or Greek yogurt to hit ~30 g protein.
Lunch: Lentil Chicken Chili
Why it works: Combines lean protein + fibre for long-lasting fullness and blood sugar stability.
Protein target: ~30 g protein per serving
Ingredients (6–8 servings):
1 lb ground chicken or turkey
1 cup dry red lentils (or 2 cups cooked)
1 can diced tomatoes
1 can crushed tomatoes
1 bell pepper, diced
1 onion, diced
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 tbsp chili powder
1 tsp cumin
1 tsp smoked paprika
Salt and pepper to taste
3–4 cups low-sodium chicken broth
Optional add-ins:
Zucchini or carrots for extra veggies
Beans if tolerated (kidney or black beans)
Instructions:
Brown ground chicken in a large pot.
Add onion, garlic, and spices; cook until fragrant.
Stir in lentils, tomatoes, broth, and vegetables.
Simmer 30–40 minutes until lentils are tender.
Storage:
Fridge: up to 5 days
Freezer: up to 3 months
How to serve:
Top with Greek yogurt or avocado
Pair with a side salad or roasted veggies
Dinner: Sheet-Pan Salmon with Asparagus & Sweet Potato
Why it works: Anti-inflammatory fats, minimal prep, and a complete balanced plate on one pan.
Protein target: ~30–35 g protein per serving
Ingredients (4 servings):
4 salmon fillets (4–5 oz each)
2 medium sweet potatoes, cubed
1 bunch asparagus, trimmed
2–3 tbsp olive oil
Salt, pepper, garlic powder
Lemon slices
Optional flavour boosts:
Dijon + maple glaze
Garlic-herb seasoning
Chili flakes
Instructions:
Preheat oven to 400°F (205°C).
Toss sweet potatoes with olive oil and seasoning. Roast 20 minutes.
Add salmon and asparagus to the pan.
Drizzle with oil, season, add lemon slices.
Roast another 12–15 minutes until salmon flakes easily.
Storage:
Fridge: up to 3–4 days
How to serve:
Add a side salad or extra veggies if needed
Swap sweet potato for quinoa or cauliflower rice as desired
Batch Cooking Tips:
Cook once, eat 3–4 times
Freeze individual portions for busy days
Label containers with protein content if helpful
Aim for at least 20–30 g protein per meal
Decision fatigue = gone.
Pillar #10: Food Environment Matters
If your fridge could talk, what would it say?
Keep healthy foods visible and ready
Chop produce before it goes in the fridge
Make the healthy choice the easy choice
This applies to your pantry too.
Pillar #11: Cardio + Strength Training
90 minutes/week of elevated heart-rate cardio
2–3 days/week of resistance training
Why?
Muscle protects bones, metabolism, and independence
Muscle loss accelerates with age and menopause
Strength training improves insulin sensitivity and longevity
YouTube is a great place to start, no gym required.
Pillar #12: Read Before Bed
Scrolling adds very little value.Blue light from phones, ipad and computers delay melatonin.Reading helps signal sleep.
Is it hard? Yes.
Is it worth trying? Also yes.
Pillar #13: Be Your Own Cheerleader
Positive thinking improves:
Consistency
Adherence
Long-term success
We live in our heads all day.Make it a kind place to be.
Even thinking about the gym counts, it means it’s on your radar.
Pillar #14: Fill Your Cup Quickly
Some of my fastest mood-boosters:
A kitchen dance party with my kids
A hug from my husband
Calling my parents (sometimes twice a day)
Five minutes can change everything.
Pillar #15: Find a Hobby
Not work.
Not parenting.
Not chores.
Just you.
Ideas to explore:
Painting or drawing
Pottery
Photography
Writing
Gardening
Dancing
Yoga
Hiking
Playing an instrument
Sewing or knitting
Language learning
Volunteering
We all need something just for joy.
Final Thought
If even one or two of these pillars resonate, that’s enough.
Thank you for being here and for following along with our monthly newsletters. I hope to see you in the new year, whether it’s in a session or a quick hello on Instagram 💛
Here’s to feeling our best in 2026.
Xoxo Alissa




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